I just got a XDM .40 4.5in and its a vary nice gun only have shot a box of fifty working on getting some reloading stuff so its not so bad to shoot. That said i really like it, its alittle bit big for a ccw gun but I may use it for one or pic up a 3.8 XDM in .40 to keep everything simple. Mitch its a vary hard decision to make way to many good choices but i would say the Glock, M&P, and XDM are all the top guns so to say lol.