On the 2006+ trucks, its a lot different and more difficult to wire up a neutral safety light. Because the NSBU is inside the trans (IMS), things are wired a lot differently from the 01-05 trucks.
Park/neutral information is all over the databus, not discrete 12v wires.
There is an output on the BCM that supplies +12v only when the trans is in park (its to actuate the brake/shifter interlock solenoid). When the trans is in park, the TCM sends a data message to the BCM, and the BCM turns this output ON. BCM connector C2, pin position A1.
This output is only on in park though, its off in reverse, neutral, drive, and M.
There is a park/neutral signal wire going from the NSBU to the ECM, but its not a +12v ouput. Its a "grounded when in park/neutral" wire. Whether you can wire that up to a light (IE, put +12v on one side of the light, and then tap the - side of the light to that park/neutral signal wire), I dont know. It depends on the internal circuit structure/schematics of the ECM. If its a 5v reference signal with an internal pullup resistor to +5v, then it will cause problems and might even fry that digital input on the ECM. If its +12v reference, then it should work fine.
The only way to tell, short of taking the ECM apart, is to disconnect that park/neutral signal wire from everything (IE, make sure the trans connector and TCM is unplugged) so the signal wire is "floating", turn the key on, engine off, and use a volt meter on that wire and see if the ECM is pulling the signal wire up to +5v ref or +12v ref.
ben